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All the Pitfalls The mistakes or pitfalls listed on this page are collected directly from the Career Building Resource Pages. They are listed in groups. The titles above each group are links. These links connect to the Resource Pages where the pitfalls were originally found. If you want to explore the ideas raised by the pitfalls in a group, just click on the link.
It's a good idea to review these pitfalls from time to time to quickly identify if your career building skills are slipping. The links refer to more detailed information that will help you correct problems and get back on track.
Getting Started
Pitfall -- Many people build a career by acquiring skills and then seeing what kinds of jobs the industry will offer them. This leads to a poorly focused career and a life managed by others.
Pitfall -- Taking shortcuts when you investigate jobs may get you into trouble. Don't just imagine the duties of a job; find out what they really are.
Pitfall -- Career builders who don't take the time to get to know their personality and their generic abilities may be unhappy in their jobs. They may spend years wondering why they are unsatisfied with every kind of work they try and why they are not promoted to positions of greater responsibility.
Pitfall -- Resist the temptation to take shortcuts. The kind of research you need to do requires time and effort. You may also have to pay for some travel expenses and telephone calls. Inadequate preparation and procedures at this stage may affect your success for years to come.
Pitfall -- Neglecting to focus on a specific division of the horse industry and failing to understand its dynamics may prevent you from doing the research needed to build a successful career.
Pitfall -- When your are first getting to know the important people, resist the temptation to ask them for a job. You cannot judge whether you want to work for them or not until you get to know them better.
Pitfall -- Relying on just one search method may not produce results. Use all your skills and options to uncover potential opportunities.
Pitfall -- Don't use "passive" methods to make your first contact with employers. Postal mail and email are examples of passive methods. You may not get any response using passive approaches. When given the opportunity, use the telephone or speak to employers in person to make your initial contact.
Pitfall -- Don't get discouraged by being rejected or ignored. Good self esteem is critical to a successful job search. You are a valuable person with gifts to offer. Don't let anything convince you otherwise.
Pitfall -- Don't depend on your resume as a substitute for real communication with potential employers. When possible, talk to employers on the telephone or in person to get a relationship started before sending them your resume.
Pitfall -- Both employers and job seekers can make the mistake of trying to gather information directly that is best gathered indirectly. Facts can be gathered directly; opinions are best gathered indirectly. Facts are objective; opinions are subjective. For example, you should not ask questions that employers cannot answer objectively and that might offend them, such as, "Do you have a good reputation?" You will have to discover from other sources whether the employer has a good reputation or not. By the same token, you should not tell employers your opinions about yourself, such as how organized and professional you think you are. You should let the employers come to their own conclusions about your qualities from the facts you give them, from your interaction with them, and from their independent investigations. Gather subjective information from third parties, or form your own intuitive conclusions. Good employers will be doing the same thing.
Pitfall -- It is very common for job seekers to focus on what they want from an employer instead of what they can do for an employer. When you communicate with employers, be sure you discuss their needs first.
Pitfall -- Do not discuss your long-term goals with an employer unless they ask you about them. The employer wants to know what you can do and do well for them right now, not what you hope to do in the future.
Pitfall -- Don't get too rigid in your thinking about a job. Problems can often be solved in unexpected ways. Be open to suggestions. Be creative in your thinking.
Pitfall -- Resist the temptation to accept a job before both you and your potential employer have worked out all the details. Don't jump at the first job that comes along. Take a deep breath, and make sure your emotions are not tempting you to take shortcuts in the negotiating process. Employers are subject to this temptation, too. If they are short of help, they may want to hire you before they have taken sufficient time to get to know you.
Pitfall -- Be careful not to make assumptions about the details of your job. Always make sure you have understood them correctly. Once you have started work, it may be harder to resolve differences in understanding between you and your employer.
Pitfall -- Don't insist on a legal employment contract. Except in special circumstances, we do not recommend employment contracts. Contracts are binding on all parties and may lock you in when you need to get out of a situation. If the terms of an employment contract are violated, your only recourse may be a lawsuit. The time and expense of a lawsuit may not be to your advantage when you need to move on with your life. The basic reason for any contract is to spell out the agreement between parties. In most cases, a less formal process that leads to mutual understanding, such as a written job description as described under Duties and Responsibilities, may be all you need.
Pitfall -- Don't worry too much about whether you are getting paid a fair wage in comparison to other people in similar jobs or what others might think about your compensation. The most important thing is to negotiate a deal that meets your needs and makes you happy.
Pitfall -- Be careful about creating a conflict of interest with your employer. For instance, if you are selling your own horses and you work for an employer who is also selling horses, then you have a conflict of interest with your employer. You may eventually lose your job because of this kind of situation.
Pitfall -- If you own livestock or equipment that is of interest to your employer, don't mix your business dealings with the arrangements for your job. For example, if you own a horse trailer, don't offer to provide it for free to enhance your attractiveness. If something happens to the horse trailer, you may suddenly look less attractive. By the same token, if you own mares that need to be bred, don't let your employer pay your regular compensation with stallion services. If something happens to your mares and you no longer need the stallion services, you may have trouble getting the cash out of your employer.
Pitfall -- Beware of dangerous thinking like this: "I must take this job because it may be the only one I'll be offered." Watch out! This attitude may make it impossible for you to judge a job on its merits. You are a valuable person with many gifts and talents. Don't take a job you have serious doubts about just because you are afraid it is the only one out there for you. If you are realistic about your abilities, if you have done your research correctly, and if you don't put too many limits on your search, you can be confident that you will always find another job to consider.
Pitfall -- Here's another dangerous thought: "This job looks good, but maybe I should wait for a better one to come along." If you have done your homework, asked the right questions, and negotiated a job that is good for you and your employer, take it! Don't wait for something better. Every job will have pros and cons.
Pitfall -- Watch out for this kind of thinking, too: "My lease doesn't run out for another six months." Don't let anything of lesser importance deter you from accepting a good job. Ask your landlord to find a new tenant and let you out of the lease, or pay the lease off in full if you have to. The same caution applies to pets and family members. If your employer won't allow your dog on his premises, find a friend or relative who will take the dog for you. Maybe the employer will change his mind, and the arrangement will only be temporary. If your wife or children have commitments that prevent them from relocating when you need to accept a job, consider moving by yourself and relocating your family later. Do whatever it takes to accept a good job.
Pitfall -- Here's another way you can sabotage yourself. "My previous employer is going out of business, and I promised to stay with them until the very end." As an employee, you do not have an obligation to stay with any employer for longer than a reasonable notice period. Don't let your desire to be helpful prevent you from taking a new position.
Pitfall -- Don't underestimate the physical stamina needed to do your job correctly. Many jobs in the horse industry require more than the average amount of physical strength and stamina. Having the best skills in the world won't do you any good if you can't meet the physical demands of the work. To do well at your job, it may be just as important for you to be in top physical condition as it is for you to have a certain set of skills. Don't overlook the need for things like regular strength training and aerobic exercise.
Pitfall -- Doing a task poorly will get you into trouble. Admitting you don't know how to do something is better than doing it poorly. If you are not sure how to handle a situation by yourself, ask for help.
Pitfall -- Don't build "triangles" in relationships. Triangles bring a third party into a problem when they are not directly involved. For instance, if you have a problem with one of your coworkers, don't complain to your employer or ask your employer to fix the problem. Take your problems directly to the other person involved. Triangles generally result in bad feelings for everyone, and they usually don't solve the problem anyway.
Pitfall -- Taking sides with your coworkers against your employer is unlikely to solve problems. If you have problems with your negotiated agreement for employment, discuss these grievances one on one with your employer. These negotiated issues, such as work environment, duties, responsibilities, and compensation, should not be addressed by a "grievance committee."
Problems that don't involve your negotiated agreement for employment, such as business policies, customer relations, and long-range planning, should be discussed in a cooperative manner. Don't present them as grievances. Discuss them in a staff meeting or when your employer asks for input. No matter what the problem, ganging up on your employer probably won' t help.
Pitfall -- Because salary levels in the horse industry tend to be lower than in some other industries, it is common for horse industry job seekers to ask for salaries that are too high for their job type.
Pitfall -- Don't assume that going back to school will jump start your stalled career. Additional education may be a waste of time and money unless you are sure that school is what it will really take to give your career the needed boost. To be sure, identify the specific skills you need, and then determine exactly how and where to obtain them.
Pitfall -- Don't think that the only way to get ahead is to take a new job that requires a higher level of skills and responsibilities. Unless you have the experience needed to do your job well, you will be setting yourself up for failure.
Pitfall -- When timing your career moves, resist the temptation to pat yourself on the back and think you are more wonderful than you really are. Also resist the temptation to think you are less wonderful than you are. Be as honest and objective as you can about your abilities.
Pitfall -- Don't assume that an advanced level of skill in one area qualifies you for an advanced position in another. For instance, you may be a terrific marketing manager in one industry and assume that this qualifies you to be a Farm Manager in the horse industry. Some of the skills may be similar, but others are not. If you don't have the full set of abilities needed for a particular job, then you are not ready to compete for it.
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